Life is what you make it..

I don't expect everyone to agree with me, but that is fine. I however, do believe that to a very large extent, we do control what does and does not happen. Yes, many things happen in everyones life which are of the unexpected or even shocking nature, and while there was nothing we could do to prevent these from happening, their sure is something we can do afterwards. Do we need to change drastically? Maybe, it all depends on what we aim to accomplish and how much we a willing to allow what has happened to have a positive or negative affect on our lives. We can sit down and wait for things to change, get better, or we can take steps to make it so. That is how we do and should have control over what happens from this moment on. Most likely there is not a damn thing we can do to completely erase the negative effects of the bad incident, but we should not allow it to linger in our system and cause more pain and damage then it already has.

So, Chear Up! There is a beautiful and clear tomorrow. Just give it all you have and be totally focused on achieving something good for yourself. You will feel great about it and you will learn from it. Chances are that you will be a much better person for having put up a fight for yourself. And if nobody notices, what the hell, you know it and that is all that really matters, and you have prepared yourself for the next challenge life throws your way, and believe me, it will....